If you’re currently dating or thinking of dating a Virgo man, but now you’re wondering what he’s like in bed and how to please him sexually then this article is for you. Here, I will reveal his naughty little secrets and exactly what you need to do to be the best lover he’s ever had.
Virgo men are often very cautious and shy during the initial stages of dating. They rarely have sex before they are certain that a woman is right for them. In essence, a Virgo male needs to be comfortable around you before kissing or making love to you.
Understanding his psychology, how he views the world and especially how he views relationships and sex is the first step in being able to make him feel at ease and comfortable with you.
Some say that if you understand how a man thinks at a deep level based on his zodiac sign then it’s almost like you can read his mind. Then, if you also knew exactly what would trigger him to feel sexually attracted to you, so you would be able to turn it on and off like a light switch then he’d almost certainly be yours.
If you were taught by a relationship astrologer, exactly what you need to do to turn a Virgo man on and make him want you, and only you, to the point where he can’t think of anything else, seducing a Virgo man becomes as easy as following a step-by-step guide. Fortunately, renowned relationship astrologer, Anna Kovach has created this exact guide here.
For Virgo guys, sex is a commitment. Virgo’s like to think of themselves as having high standards and they want to know that you are a person who can meet them at their level.
This can at first, make him appear cold, distant and even somewhat aloof. However, once he makes up his mind about you, the relationship is bound to change drastically for the better between the two of you.
With that in mind, this article will give you insights on sex with a Virgo man, what he’s like in bed and how you can become the best lover he’s ever had.
What You Need to Know About Sex With a Virgo Man
Perfectionist in sex
The perfectionist trait of a Virgo can both be a blessing and a curse. When it comes to sex, he will want to be able to please you in every way that you might desire in order to give you the perfect sexual experience.
He will use his knowledge of female anatomy, foreplay and sex and also draw on his experience in order to give you a fulfilling and satisfying experience.
Virgo’s like intellectual stimulation so he will also want to get to know your innermost fantasies and why they are such a turn on for you. He wants to know so he can do his best to fulfil them for you.
However, your Virgo guy will also expect you to be a perfectionist in the bedroom with him also. This doesn’t mean that you need to be perfect in every way, that’s just far too demanding! But rather, he will want you to go the extra distance to also satisfy him in return.
Stimulate his mind sexually
As Virgo’s are cerebral and somewhat intellectual characters, quite often physical intimacy alone is not enough for them.
They also want you to sexually stimulate the largest erogenous zone in their body – their brain. This is why Virgo men absolutely love dirty talk.
When you talk dirty to a Virgo man it stimulates his mind and gets him fantasising and thinking all manner of sexual thoughts with you.
However, Virgo men are perfectionists and if you’re not great at dirty talk then you run the risk of turning him off completely.
It’s an accepted fact that men and women think very differently when it comes to sex. What a woman may find a turn on will not necessarily be the same thing that will turn on a guy.
As such, when it comes to dirty talk, the words that may turn you on as a woman, will likely not be the same words and phrases you should use when whispering naughty things into his ear.
Fortunately, sex expert Felicity Keith teaches women how to talk dirty to guys in a way that GUYS actually respond to, and not just say the words that a woman might THINK that he wants to here.
While Felicity teaches the exact words and phrases that work on guys, she also teaches how to use your voice tone and tempo and how to step into your power and become a woman who is confident in her own sexuality. You can find out more about Felicity’s course here.
For a deeper insight on howe to stimulate his mind sexually, see my article on talking dirty to a man based on his zodiac sign.
He wants to make love in a romantic environment
Virgo men are clean, neat and orderly. Therefore, your Virgo partner wants to make love in a clean bedroom to a clean woman who smells fresh and fragrant. While this should go without saying, it’s important to pay particular attention to this when dealing with a Virgo guy.
Creating a romantic setting, turning the lights down low, lighting some scented candles and playing some soft relaxing or even sensual music are all things that will create the perfect mood.
Going the extra mile and dressing up for him in some sexy white lacy lingerie will definitely make him want you.
He likes experimenting sexually
Virgo men in bed love to explore. Therefore, your Virgo crush wants to keep things exciting and interesting. He wants to experiment with different sex positions and different speeds because he does not want to bore you.
So, if you are an aggressive and experienced woman, teaching your Virgo lover a few new moves and showing him some sex positions that he hasn’t tried will make him come back for more, time and again.
Despite his initial shyness when you first get to know him, once you get past this he will not mind experimenting with exciting sex toys, handcuffs, or anything that will create excitement in the bedroom.
Communicate your sexual fantasies
A Virgo man wants to be a great lover for you and know that he can satisfy you in the bedroom. Therefore, he wants you to tell him all about your sexual fantasies and desires. Once he has this information he will use it to try to give you the best sexual experience that you have ever had.
So, if you want to attract your Virgo man sexually, it will certainly help if you let him know what turns you on as well as how you want to be touched. He will also appreciate if you let him know the sex positions you enjoy most.
On the other hand, Virgo men are hard to figure out and don’t freely share personal details about themselves unless pressed. Therefore, it is important that you encourage him to also tell you what he wants you to do to him.
He wants you to dominate him
Virgo men are domineering and like to take control of things. However, when they are in between the sheets, Virgo guys like this role to be reversed and for their woman to take charge.
Your Virgo boyfriend will not be averse to playing the submissive role. He wants you to put in the work of satisfying his every desire, while at the same time talking your own pleasure with him.
He wants you to tie him up or use handcuffs and do all kinds naughty (and sometimes rough) things to him, so don’t be surprised if he asks for this. If this is what you’re into then you’ll have a great time with a Virgo man. If it’s your first time indulging in this kind of role play then you may find it’s extremely fun and exciting to experiment in this way!
He wants you to compliment him
Praise is important for Virgo men. What’s more, a Virgo man in bed may exude confidence on the exterior, but inside they are actually very self-analytical and self-critical regarding their sexual performance.
In other words, your Virgo man wants you to have a perfect sexual experience. His desire is to be the best he can be for you.
So, during and after sex with your Virgo partner, it is important you let him know you are enjoying the sex. However, it is important that you be sincere.
Virgo men are fairly intuitive so he will know if you are faking it.
Sex with a Virgo man is often diverse and can be a lot of fun. Your Virgo guy will like to play the submissive and tender role one minute, but then turn things around and hot and passionate the next.
However, your Virgo crush needs to connect with you emotionally before he can engage in any form of intimacy. Therefore, if you’ve just started dating a Virgo male, it is important that you do not rush him into the bedroom or he might pull away from you.
Understanding a Virgo man’s sexual wants, needs and desires will enable you to satisfy him like no other woman has been able to do before. If you are able to do this then he will not have eyes for any other woman but you. Relationship astrologer, Anna Kovach teaches exactly how here.