If you’ve got your eye on a hot Cancer man or you’ve recently started dating one and are now wondering what he likes in bed, here in this article I will expose all his intimate little secrets.
Knowing how to please your Cancer guy sexually in the bedroom will help the two of you form a lasting, passionate and fulfilling relationship.
The Cancerian man loves to connect with his partner through sex, and intimacy is often high on his list of priorities.
While there are a number of things you can do to make him crazy for you, one of the most effective ways is by whispering naughty words in his ear.
His ears are highly sensitive to the vibrations of a woman’s voice. When you combine it with the right tonality, attitude and seductive words, the effects can be explosive.
That’s why pillow talk works so well with him.
Unfortunately, most women are either too shy to talk dirty or just don’t know the right words and phrases that will trigger his sexual desires.
Relationship expert, Felicity Keith recognises this all too common problem.
Through hundreds of hours of studying all the things that turn guys on, she’s discovered a simple set of words and phrases that can trigger his psychological process for finding a woman highly sexually attractive. You can find out exactly how she does it here.
In the rest of the article I will share his other naughty secrets.
What You Need to Know About Sex with a Cancer Man
He wants to make love in a romantic setting
Cancer men in the bedroom are very romantic and sensual by nature. So, it is important that you create an intimate and emotional connection with your Cancer lover, as I previously mentioned.
Your Cancer male wants to make love in a relaxing, safe and clean environment. Taking your time to build up to the experience, taking a warm bath together and enjoying the closeness between you can be very arousing for him.
It’s all about being creative when making love with a Cancer guy. For example, getting the ambience right in the room also adds to the experience for him. Playing soft, sensual music, lighting some candles and lowering the lights will get him on the mood.
If it’s a special occasion or you really want to spoil him, going the extra mile to scatter some rose petals on the bed and giving him a nice sensual massage with some warm coconut oil will also be a turn on for him.
Some sexy lingerie that will accentuate your femininity will also get his juices flowing.
He wants foreplay
Cancer men love to engage in lots of foreplay, especially oral sex. He will love to receive it from you, but he will also take pride in pleasuring you too.
Oral sex is such a big turn on for him mainly due to the intimate nature of giving head.
Being able to go down on him well, will make him feel closer to you and build a strong, lasting intimate bond.
Unfortunately, studies have shown that while most women either think they’re good at giving head or at least, know how to do it well, most men report that the majority of blow jobs they receive are just average at best.
However, guys will rarely tell a woman that she’s doing it wrong or is not very good at it.
So why would he not say anything if his woman is not that great at it? There are two reasons;
- He doesn’t want to upset his woman
- A mediocre blow job is better than none at all, and he is worried that if he says something about it that you might stop doing it all together
Fortunately, there are sex experts like Jack who teach women exactly how to satisfy their man in the way that he truly wants to be pleasured. Jack explains the exact techniques that guys like here.
Besides you pleasuring him, he will also enjoy going down on you and take his time to make you scream with pleasure.
A Cancerian man also enjoys indulging in other aspects of foreplay. For example, he may want to take his time caressing and nibbling your breasts and take great pleasure in rubbing his penis in between them too.
Being a foreplay expert and allowing him to indulge in his fantasies with you will make your Cancerian lover will idealize you.
Talk dirty to him
Cancerian guys want to feel that their women wants them sexually. So, hearing naughty words coming from your mouth will make him feel desired by you.
While some women can feel a little shy about talking dirty to their boyfriend, it is something that all men respond to if the woman uses the words and phrases that spark his sexual drive.
To find out exactly how to talk dirty to a Cancerian man, see my article here on ways to talk dirty to a guy by zodiac sign.
He wants to dominate
Cancer men in bed want to take control. However, they can sometimes be very insecure and somewhat anxious in bed if they are making out with a sexually aggressive woman.
Therefore, if you want to please your lover sexually, it is important that you let him take the lead from time to time.
If you want to turn on your Cancer guy, even more, let him know that he has the permission to do whatever he wants with you, if, of course, you also feel comfortable with this and you have built sufficient trust between the two of you.
You may also want to check your compatibility with him by reading our article here.
He wants interesting sex
Cancerians love trying new things in bed. So, if you want to make him happy in between the sheets, it is important that you keep things exhilarating and fresh. For instance, you can suggest having sex in a new position or even introduce some sex toys.
Your Cancer boyfriend will want to make you happy and he will not mind exploring a sex position of your choice with you. Cancer guys are also experimental, so don’t be shy about suggesting new sex toys that you can both use together.
On the other hand, your Cancer male is likely to propose unusual sexual ideas that you may not have heard about.
Be open to hearing his suggestions and if they also sound appealing to you then why not allow your imaginations to run wild together.
Give him some compliments
Cancer men love to feel appreciated by their woman. He can sometimes have insecurities about his performance and ability to satisfy you, so massaging his ego from time to time by giving him compliments about the way he is pleasuring you will be greatly appreciated.
You need to make your Cancer man feel appreciated by letting him know that you are enjoying what he is doing to you. He needs encouragement and wants to know that his sexual performance is on point.
However, Cancer men are also very intuitive. So if you’re faking it then he will certainly know if you are lying to him.
Do not tell him he is good at something when he is not. Any compliment you give him should be true and it should come from your heart.
This is another reason why dirty talk is so effective on guys, especially Cancer guys. It makes him feel that you really want and desire him.
A Cancer man in bed wants you to be submissive and feminine, but at the same time, be confident enough in your sexuality to explore all the wonderful fantasies that the two of you can create together.
He wants you to let him take control over your body because that is what gives him pleasure. You need to let him know that you appreciate his efforts to make you happy.
However, a Cancerian male in bed also wants you to spoil him. So, do not forget to reciprocate the favor. Keep him interested by being patient, creative, mysterious, and open-minded.