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Taurus Man In Bed: How To Please Him Sexually

two lovers in bed together cuddling under the sheetsIf you’ve got your eye on a hot Taurus man or if you’re dating one and now want to know what he’s like in bed then here in this article I will reveal all his naughty little secrets. I will also give you the low-down on what he likes and how to please him sexually so he wants you, and only you.

Taurus men are known to be very sensual partners. Characteristically, they are can be very adventurous, stubborn, cunning, passionate, faithful, honest, and loyal both in a relationship and in other areas of their life.

Being able to combine all the things that turn him on along with the exact words phrases that that make him want you is the key to being able to satisfy him like no other woman has done before.

If you want to attract the stubborn but oh so sensual Taurus man and keep him interested in you, and only you, then this article will give you the insights you need.

What You Need to Know About Sex with a Taurus Man

Stimulate his senses

Taurus guys are known to be very sensual creatures. They like anything that stimulates their senses in a pleasurable and satisfying way.

When he’s making love he enjoys to indulge all the senses of sight, sound, taste, touch and smell. Giving him a highly sensual experience during sex becomes a fully immersive experience for him.

His sense of touch

Lightly caressing and stroking him will help to stimulate his sense of touch as well as massaging him with some warm oil during foreplay. He will also like to touch and caress your body too, as he will greatly enjoy perceiving you through his sense of touch.

He may also like the light touch of something soft like a feather stroking his skin, so play around with various tactile objects that are pleasing to the touch and see which ones he responds to the most.

His sense of sound

The ears are a very sensitive erogenous zone and respond well to light kisses, gentle licks and tender nibbles. However, hearing naughty little words whispered into his ear from you is also highly arousing for him.

His sense of smell

Wearing a nice scented perfume and using relaxing scented candles will help to tantalise his sense of smell.

His sense of sight

Taurus guys like to see their woman when they are making love. Not only does it make him more aroused to see you while he’s making love to you, but he also wants to see that you’re enjoying the experience too.

Taurus men are known to be great lovers as they like to go the extra distance to make sure their partner is satisfied. So if he can see that you are enjoying making love to him, he will want to please you all the more.

His sense of taste

Using some food items in your foreplay such as strawberries, whipped cream and chocolate sauced can help to greatly heighten his sense or pleasure.

If you’ve not tried it already, consider squirting some whipped cream onto some of your body parts and ask him to lick it off you.

a young couple being sexually intimate on a rug on the floor

Dirty talk

Following on from stimulating his sense of sound above, Taurus men just absolutely love dirty talk.

Whispering sexy words of what you want him to do you to or what you want to do to him is a highly arousing experience.

When you talk dirty to him it lets him know that you really want and desire him. This is a big ego boost for him. However, your Taurean lover also wants to know that he’s pleasing you too, so talking dirty is a great way to let him know how much you enjoy all the things he does to you.

Many women are shy when it comes to talking dirty as it takes confidence in yourself and your sexuality to be able to do it well. So, when you talk dirty to him it unconsciously shows him that you are a strong woman who is comfortable in her sexual power, which is also highly attractive.

When most women talk dirty to their boyfriend they make the mistake of just saying the first thing that comes to mind or worse yet, the things that she would like to hear.

However, the fact is men and women just don’t think the same when it comes to sex. The kinds of words, phrases and scenarios that turn a woman on are very different for what actually gets a guy hot and horny.

Fortunately, sex therapist Felicity Keith teaches women the exact words and phrases that men go crazy for.

Felicity also shows women how to find their confidence once and for all and step into their sexual power to become the kind of woman that men find highly attractive and can’t resist. She explains her methods here.

If you want to know more about talking dirty to a Taurus, then check out my article on talking dirty to him by his zodiac sign.

He wants to make love in a romantic environment

Satisfying your Taurus man sexually starts with setting the perfect mood.

For the most part, Taurus men desire to make love in a relaxing, comfortable and clean space where he can indulge himself and explore you completely.

Getting the atmosphere right with some nice scented candles, low lighting and soft, sexy music gets him in the mood.

You can even take it a step further by using silk sheets on the bed and even dressing up in some sexy lingerie so he can have fun undressing you.

He wants foreplay

Taurus men are like taking their time when making love, and therefore absolutely love foreplay.

He likes to take his time and pay attention to how you are responding to all the ways in which he pleasures you. He will build up a mental picture of exactly what you like so he can pleasure you all the more with each love-making session.

He knows how to use his tongue and you will certainly have mind-blowing orgasms from oral sex. In return, he will also desire and appreciate good oral sex from you too.

Interestingly, surveys have shown that the majority of men say that the oral sex they receive from women is mostly average at best. However, most women think they are good at it.

This is why sex instructors like Jack teach women the exact techniques that drive him wild and blow his mind. You can find out about Jack’s methods here.

Let him dominate

Taurus men are domineering by nature.

With that in mind, your Taurus man gets very turned on when you play the submissive role and let him take charge.

Your Taurus lover wants you to be feminine and see your receptive side. However, he also likes to dominate you with pleasure too. So telling him exactly what you want and how you like it is something that he always wants to hear.

However, Taurus guy does not mind playing the submissive role and feeling appreciated. He also desires to just lie down and be given sexual pleasure, so this is your chance to dominate him with your sexual power.

two people's feet sticking out of the covers in bed

See also: How to please a Cancer Man sexually in bed

Try new things

Taurus men love routine and can get stuck in their ways, even in the bedroom department. However, this can become boring. It’s not that he doesn’t like change, it’s just that he’s not the most imaginative when it comes to sex.

However, he will not mind trying new things in the bedroom if you suggest them. Being creative in the bedroom and making things fun and exciting for both of you will help the tow of you to have a satisfying and rewarding sex life.

Experimenting with sex toys will help to spice up your sexual relationship with a Taurus man as he will likely be open to using them with you.

In addition, changing up your sexual positions will also be a welcomed change. For a Taurus man, he particularly likes the positions where he can see you and look into your eyes while you’re making love.

As mentioned earlier, Taurus men like to take their time during sex, so when introducing new things just relax and take your time exploring with him before moving onto the next thing.

It is important that you focus on making each comfortable as you explore new ideas and experiences with him.

He wants loads of compliments

Men like it when they are complimented in the bedroom, and Taurus man is not an exception. This helps to boost his ego and make him feel desired by you.

So, if you want to win the heart of your Taurus lover, it is important that you let him know how much you like it when he does all those naughty and exciting things to you.

In addition, if you like the way he flips you over or how he does something that you like, it is important that you use positive reinforcement so he will do it all the more.

Final Thoughts

The secret of knowing how to satisfy your Taurus man in bed is in his sexual traits.

He’s a highly sensual creature so play that to your advantage and indulge all his senses wherever possible.

He likes to take his time while making love, therefore, foreplay is very important to him.

Creating the perfect atmosphere, dressing up in some sexy lingerie and combining sensual touch with dirty talk with long indulgent foreplay sessions will absolutely blow his socks off.

As sensuality is an integral part of how a Taurus man communicates sexually, he is highly attracted and aroused by a woman who is confident enough to step into and own her sexual power, just like Felicity Keith teaches here.

Cancer Man In Bed – How To Please Him Sexually

a couple laying in bed togetherIf you’ve got your eye on a hot Cancer man or you’ve recently started dating one and are now wondering what he likes in bed, here in this article I will expose all his intimate little secrets.

Knowing how to please your Cancer guy sexually in the bedroom will help the two of you form a lasting, passionate and fulfilling relationship.

The Cancerian man loves to connect with his partner through sex, and intimacy is often high on his list of priorities.

While there are a number of things you can do to make him crazy for you, one of the most effective ways is by whispering naughty words in his ear.

His ears are highly sensitive to the vibrations of a woman’s voice. When you combine it with the right tonality, attitude and seductive words, the effects can be explosive.

That’s why pillow talk works so well with him.

Unfortunately, most women are either too shy to talk dirty or just don’t know the right words and phrases that will trigger his sexual desires.

Relationship expert, Felicity Keith recognises this all too common problem.

Through hundreds of hours of studying all the things that turn guys on, she’s discovered a simple set of words and phrases that can trigger his psychological process for finding a woman highly sexually attractive. You can find out exactly how she does it here.

In the rest of the article I will share his other naughty secrets.

What You Need to Know About Sex with a Cancer Man

He wants to make love in a romantic setting

Cancer men in the bedroom are very romantic and sensual by nature. So, it is important that you create an intimate and emotional connection with your Cancer lover, as I previously mentioned.

Your Cancer male wants to make love in a relaxing, safe and clean environment. Taking your time to build up to the experience, taking a warm bath together and enjoying the closeness between you can be very arousing for him.

It’s all about being creative when making love with a Cancer guy. For example, getting the ambience right in the room also adds to the experience for him. Playing soft, sensual music, lighting some candles and lowering the lights will get him on the mood.

If it’s a special occasion or you really want to spoil him, going the extra mile to scatter some rose petals on the bed and giving him a nice sensual massage with some warm coconut oil will also be a turn on for him.

Some sexy lingerie that will accentuate your femininity will also get his juices flowing.

He wants foreplay

a woman laying on a bed in pleasureCancer men love to engage in lots of foreplay, especially oral sex. He will love to receive it from you, but he will also take pride in pleasuring you too.

Oral sex is such a big turn on for him mainly due to the intimate nature of giving head.

Being able to go down on him well, will make him feel closer to you and build a strong, lasting intimate bond.

Unfortunately, studies have shown that while most women either think they’re good at giving head or at least, know how to do it well, most men report that the majority of blow jobs they receive are just average at best.

However, guys will rarely tell a woman that she’s doing it wrong or is not very good at it.

So why would he not say anything if his woman is not that great at it? There are two reasons;

  1. He doesn’t want to upset his woman
  2. A mediocre blow job is better than none at all, and he is worried that if he says something about it that you might stop doing it all together

Fortunately, there are sex experts like Jack who teach women exactly how to satisfy their man in the way that he truly wants to be pleasured. Jack explains the exact techniques that guys like here.

Besides you pleasuring him, he will also enjoy going down on you and take his time to make you scream with pleasure.

A Cancerian man also enjoys indulging in other aspects of foreplay. For example, he may want to take his time caressing and nibbling your breasts and take great pleasure in rubbing his penis in between them too.

Being a foreplay expert and allowing him to indulge in his fantasies with you will make your Cancerian lover will idealize you.

Talk dirty to him

Cancerian guys want to feel that their women wants them sexually. So, hearing naughty words coming from your mouth will make him feel desired by you.

While some women can feel a little shy about talking dirty to their boyfriend, it is something that all men respond to if the woman uses the words and phrases that spark his sexual drive.

To find out exactly how to talk dirty to a Cancerian man, see my article here on ways to talk dirty to a guy by zodiac sign.

He wants to dominate

Cancer men in bed want to take control. However, they can sometimes be very insecure and somewhat anxious in bed if they are making out with a sexually aggressive woman.

Therefore, if you want to please your lover sexually, it is important that you let him take the lead from time to time.

If you want to turn on your Cancer guy, even more, let him know that he has the permission to do whatever he wants with you, if, of course, you also feel comfortable with this and you have built sufficient trust between the two of you.

You may also want to check your compatibility with him by reading our article here.

two lovers in bed together

He wants interesting sex

Cancerians love trying new things in bed. So, if you want to make him happy in between the sheets, it is important that you keep things exhilarating and fresh. For instance, you can suggest having sex in a new position or even introduce some sex toys.

Your Cancer boyfriend will want to make you happy and he will not mind exploring a sex position of your choice with you. Cancer guys are also experimental, so don’t be shy about suggesting new sex toys that you can both use together.

On the other hand, your Cancer male is likely to propose unusual sexual ideas that you may not have heard about.

Be open to hearing his suggestions and if they also sound appealing to you then why not allow your imaginations to run wild together.

Give him some compliments

two young lovers playing together

Cancer men love to feel appreciated by their woman. He can sometimes have insecurities about his performance and ability to satisfy you, so massaging his ego from time to time by giving him compliments about the way he is pleasuring you will be greatly appreciated.

You need to make your Cancer man feel appreciated by letting him know that you are enjoying what he is doing to you. He needs encouragement and wants to know that his sexual performance is on point.

However, Cancer men are also very intuitive. So if you’re faking it then he will certainly know if you are lying to him.

Do not tell him he is good at something when he is not. Any compliment you give him should be true and it should come from your heart.

This is another reason why dirty talk is so effective on guys, especially Cancer guys. It makes him feel that you really want and desire him.

Final Thoughts

A Cancer man in bed wants you to be submissive and feminine, but at the same time, be confident enough in your sexuality to explore all the wonderful fantasies that the two of you can create together.

He wants you to let him take control over your body because that is what gives him pleasure. You need to let him know that you appreciate his efforts to make you happy.

However, a Cancerian male in bed also wants you to spoil him. So, do not forget to reciprocate the favor. Keep him interested by being patient, creative, mysterious, and open-minded.

How to Talk Dirty To A Man Based On His Zodiac Sign

a man and a woman seductively talking to each otherEveryone knows that guys love dirty talk, it’s just how they’re wired. When you whisper those naughty little words into his ear it creates powerful imagery in his mind as he starts to fantasise about all those naughty thoughts that you just put into his head.

Our brains are actually our most powerful sex organ. It’s responsible for all the functions in our body, including our sexual functions and feelings of desire.

This is why it is possible for both men and women to have an orgasm without being physically stimulated, but through fantasy and imagination alone.

And this is what happens when a guy has a wet dream, he wakes up from his slumber only to find a wet patch in his shorts.

Basically, the sexual dream he had created a bunch of intensely erotic fantasies in his mind that began a chemical reaction shooting through his body. Before long, the fantasy feels so real then bam! he ejaculates.

Most women are thrilled when they learn that they can wield such a power over a man just by using her words alone.

If you were to imagine what it would be like to always know exactly what to say to a guy to turn him on, to get him to fantasise about you even when you’re not around and to beg to be with you, and only you, then you’ll probably quickly realize why dirty talk has recently become such a hot topic!

However, most women think that they know how to talk dirty to a guy, they ‘think’ they know what words they should be using and how they should be using their voice.

The reality is that men and women think very differently when it comes to sex.

In most cases, the words, situations and scenarios that turn on a woman are not the same for men, and vice vera. This is where most women go wrong and end up either not getting much of a reaction from their guy or turning him off completely.

When this happens, most guys either don’t react very strongly or they just pretend that her words are turning him on.

Guys do this for several reasons; one, he doesn’t want to upset or embarrass his woman and two, he’s just about to get some and he doesn’t want to put you off your game, he’d rather keep quiet so the two of you can get down and busy.

Fortunately, there are sex experts out there who teach women exactly what to say to a guy and how to say it. The downside is those private sessions can be very expensive.

This is why sex expert, Felicity Keith, decided to put together an easy to follow, step-by-step guide that teaches women not only the exact words and phrases to turn her man on, but also how to use her voice in a way that communicates directly with the pleasure centers in his brain.

Felicity’s course also teaches women how to become sexually liberated, to step into her confidence and own her sexual power. You can find out more about Felicity’s course here.

When it comes to a person’s zodiac sign, there are also certain characteristics and tendencies specific to each sign. Therefore, an Aries man will have slightly different turn on’s to an Aquarius man, for example.

This is why I wanted to write an article about how you can tweak your dirty talk depending on which zodiac sign your man relates to.

So, without further ado, below are the key differences in dirty talk for guys depending on their zodiac sign.

Dirty Talking According to Ma’s Zodiac Sign

Aries man

a woman whispering in her boyfriends earAries men in bed are straightforward and simple. What’s more, they like to be very domineering.

Knowing this means you can play on his dominant nature by telling him all the naughty things you want him to do to you. If your naughty words conjures up images in his mind of you being submissive to him in some way then he’ll love it!

You can also use the four letter word to express what you want your Aries lover to do to you. For example, “I love the way you fu*k me right now…”.

Taurus man

The man in Taurus perceives sex as an activity that helps him to get away from his busy schedule. He does not mind prolonging his lovemaking sessions.

What’s more, details with a lot of sensory input are very important for a Taurus man in bed. Therefore, if you want to turn on a Taurus guy, it is important that you give him a vivid description of what you want him to do to you or what you will do to him.

Be sure to involve all your senses in your descriptions and get him to feel exciting body sensations with your words.

For example, saying to him, “Can you imagine how good it will feel when we get home and your “XXXX” is in my mouth…”, will get him to imagine all the sensations and feelings that you are describing.

A Taurus man also takes great pleasure in pleasing his woman. So, you can also use words and phrases that get him to imagine pleasuring you too.

For instance, “I can’t stop thinking about how it would feel with your tongue against my………”

Gemini man

Gemini men have strong imaginations and love fantasizing. They like it when the implications of dirty talk or sex are somewhat impractical and impossible in the moment.

In other words, if you want to turn on your Gemini guy, try to send him a naughty text when he’s at work so he then actually has to wait until later to see you before he can act on it. All the while he will be thinking of what the two of you will be doing together later.

Another great opportunity is when you’re both at the airport together. Whispering something naughty in his ear will get him thinking all manner of naughty things until the two of you can make it so.

The idea is to talk dirty to your Gemini man when you are at a place where having sex is impossible. It makes him fantasize about having to do it at that inappropriate place, which he finds highly arousing.

a woman laying on a bed sending dirty text messages

Cancer man

The sensitive Cancer guy wants you to dote on him. He wants you to tell him a sexy story that has the dirtiest details and, of course, involves you and him at the center.

What’s more, your Cancer partner wants you to make the sexual descriptions colourful and vivid.

Apart from that, your Cancer boyfriend wants you to talk dirty to him and ask for his permission to do those things to him.

Leo man

Nothing turns on a Leo man like complimenting him and polishing his ego. So, if you want to win the heart of a Leo man, it is important that you make it a habit to shower him with praise.

For instance, your Leo boyfriend wants you to tell him in detail how much he turns you on and how much you can’t stop thinking of him doing X, Y and Z to you, regardless of the time of day.

This is a big ego boost for him and also gets him thinking of all the scenarios you just mentioned. So, if there’s a particular fantasy that you want him to act out if you put it into his head he may very well act it out for you later.

The secret is to make your erotic talk as flattering as possible. You need to make him feel like he’s the most gorgeous and hottest man on earth.

Virgo man

Virgo men are not known to be very kinky, but they certainly know how to engage in erotic talk. Therefore, you must be able to keep pace with him to avoid disappointing your Virgo male.

Your sexual vibe needs to be sensational, elaborate and somewhat intelligent.

Virgo men like it when dirty talk involves the intricate details of the lacy and sexy lingerie you are wearing, for instance.

See my article here for more detailed info on how to please a Virgo man in bed.

Libra man

Libra men are skilful romantics. They are the kind of men who have fairytale wishes and unrealistic sexual dreams.

So, when talking dirty to your Libra guy, it is important to avoid being scandalous. You need to keep your erotic talk simple and sweet so that you can encourage him to share his fantasies and wishes with you.

However, if you’re naturally a bit kinkier than your Libra lover, it doesn’t mean that you can’t bring him around to your way of thinking. Libra guys want to know that they are pleasing their woman, so if he gets the idea that a particular kink is your thing, he’ll be much more likely to warm up to the idea if he knows it will please you.

With Libra man, you also need to tell him the things that make you happy. So, if you need more detailed info on the exact things that turn a Libra man on, read what astrologer, Anna Kovach has to say here.

Scorpio man

Scorpio men do not have limits when it comes to talking dirty. Your Scorpio man is capable of handling any kind of erotic talk regardless of the intensity of the words you use. What’s more, he absolutely loves it!

In fact, there’s almost nothing sexual that will shock a Scorpio. He has a deep and varied imagination when it comes to sex and loves to experiment and try new things.

When whispering naughty words into his ear, you do not need to be elaborate. Going straight to the point without pulling any punches is what seems to work well with Scorpio men.

If you are dating a Scorpio guy, it is important to note that you can engage in sex talk any time of the day or night and he will respond.

See also: Do many couples use sext toys

a young couple in bed together talking

Sagittarius man

Sagittarius men tend to take sex quite seriously. To a Sagittarius guy, sex is both a physical and a philosophical act. Therefore, when talking dirty to him, it is important that you make it exciting for him by combining the two pleasures.

Sagittarius fellas are also very adventurous due to the high level of fire energy that they possess. So, making your dirty talk sound physically pleasurable, active and adventurous is a great combo for a Sag.

To make the lovemaking sessions more thrilling for your Sagittarius man, you can encourage him to talk back to you about how he feels or what he wants.

Capricorn Man

When talking dirty to your Capricorn lover, it is important that you show him you understand him and his needs.

Capricorn men can be very dominating and like to be in the lead role. Therefore, make your dirty talk focus on him being the one in the lead and taking his pleasure with you.

What’s more, a good ego massage also works well with a Cap fella. If you want to win his heart and be the star of all his sexual fantasies, it is important that you tell him how hot you find him and how impressive he is in the bedroom.

Aquarius Man

The Goog Girl's Guide To Texting Dirty - by Felicity KeithYour Aquarius boyfriend wants to listen to your seductive, yet soothing words. Therefore, you need to take your time with your Aquarius lover and bring him on an erotic adventure by allowing both your imaginations to run wild together.

The secret of winning the attention of your Aquarius man in bed is to stimulate his curiosity and pique his intrigue with your words.

Enticing him with seductively dirty texts and emails is especially effective on an Aquarius guy.

Sex expert Felicity Keith is currently giving away free copies of her book, ‘The Good Girl’s Guide To Texting Dirty’. You can find out more about how to get your free copy here.

Pisces man

A Pisces man in bed is very imaginative. Therefore, sexy talk comes naturally to him.

With that in mind, there is no limit to how adventurous or descriptive your sex talk can get with him. However, it is important to remember that your Pisces guy is also a very sensitive chap.

Although he will not show it on the surface, your Pisces boyfriend needs to feel secure and well taken care of when he’s with you. What’s more, flexibility is paramount when talking dirty to a Pisces male as he will like you to mix things up to keep things exciting.

Final Thoughts

Understanding how he thinks sexually based on his zodiac sign will help to make your dirty talk far more effective and communicate with him on a deeper level.

Being aware that men and women think differently about sex is very important when it comes to dirty talk. If you just say things to him that you think he wants to hear or the things that would turn you on then you’re likely not going to get much reaction out of him, or even turn him off completely.

Knowing the exact words and phrases that men crave to hear and understanding exactly how to use your voice in order to deliver your naughty little love messages will put you ahead of 99% of all the other women out there who just try to wing it.

However, being able to fully step into your sexual power and own your sexual energy as Felicity Keith teaches, will make your dirty talk much more impactful.

For those who use Felicity’s methods, it puts you front and centre of all his sexual fantasies, where he wants you, and only you. Felicity explains exactly how it works here.

Virgo Man In Bed – How To Please Him Sexually

a man and a woman in bed kissing sensuallyIf you’re currently dating or thinking of dating a Virgo man, but now you’re wondering what he’s like in bed and how to please him sexually then this article is for you. Here, I will reveal his naughty little secrets and exactly what you need to do to be the best lover he’s ever had.

Virgo men are often very cautious and shy during the initial stages of dating. They rarely have sex before they are certain that a woman is right for them. In essence, a Virgo male needs to be comfortable around you before kissing or making love to you.

Understanding his psychology, how he views the world and especially how he views relationships and sex is the first step in being able to make him feel at ease and comfortable with you.

Some say that if you understand how a man thinks at a deep level based on his zodiac sign then it’s almost like you can read his mind. Then, if you also knew exactly what would trigger him to feel sexually attracted to you, so you would be able to turn it on and off like a light switch then he’d almost certainly be yours.

If you were taught by a relationship astrologer, exactly what you need to do to turn a Virgo man on and make him want you, and only you, to the point where he can’t think of anything else, seducing a Virgo man becomes as easy as following a step-by-step guide. Fortunately, renowned relationship astrologer, Anna Kovach has created this exact guide here.

For Virgo guys, sex is a commitment. Virgo’s like to think of themselves as having high standards and they want to know that you are a person who can meet them at their level.

This can at first, make him appear cold, distant and even somewhat aloof. However, once he makes up his mind about you, the relationship is bound to change drastically for the better between the two of you.

With that in mind, this article will give you insights on sex with a Virgo man, what he’s like in bed and how you can become the best lover he’s ever had.

What You Need to Know About Sex With a Virgo Man

Perfectionist in sex

The perfectionist trait of a Virgo can both be a blessing and a curse. When it comes to sex, he will want to be able to please you in every way that you might desire in order to give you the perfect sexual experience.

He will use his knowledge of female anatomy, foreplay and sex and also draw on his experience in order to give you a fulfilling and satisfying experience.

Virgo’s like intellectual stimulation so he will also want to get to know your innermost fantasies and why they are such a turn on for you. He wants to know so he can do his best to fulfil them for you.

However, your Virgo guy will also expect you to be a perfectionist in the bedroom with him also. This doesn’t mean that you need to be perfect in every way, that’s just far too demanding! But rather, he will want you to go the extra distance to also satisfy him in return.

Stimulate his mind sexually

As Virgo’s are cerebral and somewhat intellectual characters, quite often physical intimacy alone is not enough for them.

They also want you to sexually stimulate the largest erogenous zone in their body – their brain. This is why Virgo men absolutely love dirty talk.

When you talk dirty to a Virgo man it stimulates his mind and gets him fantasising and thinking all manner of sexual thoughts with you.

However, Virgo men are perfectionists and if you’re not great at dirty talk then you run the risk of turning him off completely.

It’s an accepted fact that men and women think very differently when it comes to sex. What a woman may find a turn on will not necessarily be the same thing that will turn on a guy.

As such, when it comes to dirty talk, the words that may turn you on as a woman, will likely not be the same words and phrases you should use when whispering naughty things into his ear.

Fortunately, sex expert Felicity Keith teaches women how to talk dirty to guys in a way that GUYS actually respond to, and not just say the words that a woman might THINK that he wants to here.

While Felicity teaches the exact words and phrases that work on guys, she also teaches how to use your voice tone and tempo and how to step into your power and become a woman who is confident in her own sexuality. You can find out more about Felicity’s course here.

For a deeper insight on howe to stimulate his mind sexually, see my article on talking dirty to a man based on his zodiac sign.

a woman sitting on her bed saying dirty things to her boyfriend

He wants to make love in a romantic environment

Virgo men are clean, neat and orderly. Therefore, your Virgo partner wants to make love in a clean bedroom to a clean woman who smells fresh and fragrant. While this should go without saying, it’s important to pay particular attention to this when dealing with a Virgo guy.

Creating a romantic setting, turning the lights down low, lighting some scented candles and playing some soft relaxing or even sensual music are all things that will create the perfect mood.

Going the extra mile and dressing up for him in some sexy white lacy lingerie will definitely make him want you.

See also: Cancer Men in bed – what you need to know

He likes experimenting sexually

Virgo men in bed love to explore. Therefore, your Virgo crush wants to keep things exciting and interesting. He wants to experiment with different sex positions and different speeds because he does not want to bore you.

So, if you are an aggressive and experienced woman, teaching your Virgo lover a few new moves and showing him some sex positions that he hasn’t tried will make him come back for more, time and again.

Despite his initial shyness when you first get to know him, once you get past this he will not mind experimenting with exciting sex toys, handcuffs, or anything that will create excitement in the bedroom.

Communicate your sexual fantasies

A Virgo man wants to be a great lover for you and know that he can satisfy you in the bedroom. Therefore, he wants you to tell him all about your sexual fantasies and desires. Once he has this information he will use it to try to give you the best sexual experience that you have ever had.

So, if you want to attract your Virgo man sexually, it will certainly help if you let him know what turns you on as well as how you want to be touched. He will also appreciate if you let him know the sex positions you enjoy most.

On the other hand, Virgo men are hard to figure out and don’t freely share personal details about themselves unless pressed. Therefore, it is important that you encourage him to also tell you what he wants you to do to him.

Alternatively, you can read Anna Kovach’s book, Virgo Man Sextrology (part of the Virgo Man Secrets series) to discover all the naughty sexual fantasies and desires of a Virgo man.

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He wants you to dominate him

Virgo men are domineering and like to take control of things. However, when they are in between the sheets, Virgo guys like this role to be reversed and for their woman to take charge.

Your Virgo boyfriend will not be averse to playing the submissive role. He wants you to put in the work of satisfying his every desire, while at the same time talking your own pleasure with him.

He wants you to tie him up or use handcuffs and do all kinds naughty (and sometimes rough) things to him, so don’t be surprised if he asks for this. If this is what you’re into then you’ll have a great time with a Virgo man. If it’s your first time indulging in this kind of role play then you may find it’s extremely fun and exciting to experiment in this way!

See also: Taurus man in bed – his surprising secrets

He wants you to compliment him

Praise is important for Virgo men. What’s more, a Virgo man in bed may exude confidence on the exterior, but inside they are actually very self-analytical and self-critical regarding their sexual performance.

In other words, your Virgo man wants you to have a perfect sexual experience. His desire is to be the best he can be for you.

So, during and after sex with your Virgo partner, it is important you let him know you are enjoying the sex. However, it is important that you be sincere.

Virgo men are fairly intuitive so he will know if you are faking it.

Final Thoughts

Sex with a Virgo man is often diverse and can be a lot of fun. Your Virgo guy will like to play the submissive and tender role one minute, but then turn things around and hot and passionate the next.

However, your Virgo crush needs to connect with you emotionally before he can engage in any form of intimacy. Therefore, if you’ve just started dating a Virgo male, it is important that you do not rush him into the bedroom or he might pull away from you.

Understanding a Virgo man’s sexual wants, needs and desires will enable you to satisfy him like no other woman has been able to do before. If you are able to do this then he will not have eyes for any other woman but you. Relationship astrologer, Anna Kovach teaches exactly how here.

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